Much like the gunmetal filters, I'm going with a kind of neutral vibe
I'm a glass-half-full kind of guy anyway*.
They'll get here when they get here and as long as they actually *do* get here, it's all good (for me at least; appreciate other's have different priorities).
Bob's been far too good to me (personally) for me to even think of kicking him when he's down.
I totally understand people's frustration and disappointment and desire for clarity; not wishing to dismiss or diminish that in any way.
I heard a good saying the other day though:
"If something or someone is annoying/offending you, ask yourself if you'd still be bothered about it in 20 years. If not, just let it go"
Easier to say than do I guess, but a worthwhile thing to aim for
*actually, less 'glass half full' and more like "There were beers? There were beers?! Why did I not know about this?!"