Guilty as charged.
The value of my gear outweighs the value of my music collection.
But I'm planning to change that.
The past three years have been an odyssey of discovery with the gear. I've owned around 20 pairs of headphones, five pairs of speakers and I'm not sure how many amps and sources.
Now, finally, I think I've got the gear nailed down. I can't see owning any other headphones, I'm pretty well set on keeping the Quads and Orions, the turntable is my my dream rig, and I'll upgrade my digital source every few years. It's going to take 12-18 months to finish building my amp projects - but I already have the parts.
So there is light at the end of the tunnel. I've been averaging two or three discs (SACD, vinyl and CDs) each week and plan to increase that as time goes on. In another three years, I expect the music collection to pull even and then go ahead.
People talk about loving gear as sort of a bad thing. It isn't. Discovering my likes and dislikes has been a blast. Building an amp is like piecing together a three dimensional jigsaw puzzle - it is a blast. I think it's wise to consider both the gear and music. That's the best way to maximize pleasure in this hobby.