Yeah, no. If an amp is designed with SE outputs in mind, it will deliver the signal as good as one which was made with balanced circuitry. But oftenly, the price is higher while the benefits are intangible. Those 30dB of crosstalk are noticeable at defeaning volumes. A normal human being will listen at or about 80dB, tops. Higher than that, hearing loss will occur.
Would you choose a Topping A90 because it outputs (can’t recall the exact figure) 7(?)W at 32Ohm or go for a Violectric that does 3,2W@50Ohm? And that has both 6,3 and 4,4 outputs but both SE. The RRP were close, between the two but personally, i’d go with Violectric and it’s non-clinical, dry, empty sound rather than choosing the Topping that yes, will power most of everything on the market at blistering high levels of dryness.
What i’m trying to convey is that you’re still wrong. Crosstalk differences do exist on the same amp but through different outputs and yes, it will be higher on SE if said amp was built with balanced circuitry in mind. But on a different amp, built with pure SE circuitry, you’ll get similar crosstalk values to that of a balanced one. Balanced =/= better. It just means louder. That’s it. Same sound signature. There are zero acoustical differences between a 6.3mm and a 4.4mm pole.
If you feel really adventurous, i’m down for a blind, unsighted, volume matched, A/B test between a SE output amp and a balanced one. If you can correctly point out the balanced one more than 4/10 attempts, on a headphone of your choosing, i’ll buy both the amps and the headphone and gift them to you. If not, you delete your account and never come back to head-fi. Deal?