GlendaleViper
Yep, words.
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I like to think of myself as some kind of a wit. Dimwit perhaps, but a wit nonetheless. It's kind of mandatory - nobody likes the guy that can dish out a zinger but can't accept one back. As a bit of a dick, I am therefore quick to self-deprecate where it'll draw a laugh.
Now, I like to think that my witticisms are just that. Among friends I tend to be a little more introspective and scathing, since they know me well enough to draw some entertainment from it... but that's not where this thread is going. My concern lies with the "fluffy ribs" I like to toss around with acquaintances, work friends and strangers, and the rising frequency that said ribs are being met with grassroots psychology.
Now, of course, I have taken into consideration that my jokes may not be funny.
But then I consider the reaction of the group and suddenly I start to feel that (to some, anyway) scathing humour is just not funny to people anymore. It's a depressing thought, really: Consider that sensitivity is so high that you can't even take a dig at yourself anymore, without offending someone in one way or another.
Now, the discussion aspect. No doubt we have some rapier wits in the house that is Head-Fi. Sadly, my strengths lie in speed and dialogue over the written word, so I fear much of my sense of humour is lost on these boards (except where straight absurdity can be relayed). To strike a point, on numerous occasions over the last half year and between "lite" friends and strangers alike, my self-deprecation has been met with some of the following comments (just a quick sampling off the top of my head):
- You know, you really shouldn't talk like that. You're a nice person.
- Hey, you should really read "The Secret". (Seriously)
- Do you want to talk?
- Nah man, don't think like that, think positive! (this one has led into a conversation about The Secret, too)
Now, bear in mind that these comments stem from the lightest of jokes, directed at the most superficial qualities of my persona and physique, always delivered with a wry smile. They have to be. These people don't know me, certainly not well, and anything deeper would just fly over their heads. More to the point, they haven't even seen me upset, angry, sad, etc.
Anyway, I found it curious that suddenly a much loved form of humour is being met with such reactions. Is this a byproduct of internet diagnoses? Is the Emo generation at fault? Am I the only one that's noticed this? I can't say this type of reaction is rampant, but I get one from time to time
and I can't help but think we're too oversensitive as a culture to appreciate a friendly jab in the ribs from time to time.
Thoughts?
Now, I like to think that my witticisms are just that. Among friends I tend to be a little more introspective and scathing, since they know me well enough to draw some entertainment from it... but that's not where this thread is going. My concern lies with the "fluffy ribs" I like to toss around with acquaintances, work friends and strangers, and the rising frequency that said ribs are being met with grassroots psychology.
Now, of course, I have taken into consideration that my jokes may not be funny.
But then I consider the reaction of the group and suddenly I start to feel that (to some, anyway) scathing humour is just not funny to people anymore. It's a depressing thought, really: Consider that sensitivity is so high that you can't even take a dig at yourself anymore, without offending someone in one way or another.
Now, the discussion aspect. No doubt we have some rapier wits in the house that is Head-Fi. Sadly, my strengths lie in speed and dialogue over the written word, so I fear much of my sense of humour is lost on these boards (except where straight absurdity can be relayed). To strike a point, on numerous occasions over the last half year and between "lite" friends and strangers alike, my self-deprecation has been met with some of the following comments (just a quick sampling off the top of my head):
- You know, you really shouldn't talk like that. You're a nice person.
- Hey, you should really read "The Secret". (Seriously)
- Do you want to talk?
- Nah man, don't think like that, think positive! (this one has led into a conversation about The Secret, too)
Now, bear in mind that these comments stem from the lightest of jokes, directed at the most superficial qualities of my persona and physique, always delivered with a wry smile. They have to be. These people don't know me, certainly not well, and anything deeper would just fly over their heads. More to the point, they haven't even seen me upset, angry, sad, etc.
Anyway, I found it curious that suddenly a much loved form of humour is being met with such reactions. Is this a byproduct of internet diagnoses? Is the Emo generation at fault? Am I the only one that's noticed this? I can't say this type of reaction is rampant, but I get one from time to time
and I can't help but think we're too oversensitive as a culture to appreciate a friendly jab in the ribs from time to time.
Thoughts?