Good sir ... your assumption that I have VETO power made my morning. My wife IS the boss of the house, but allow me to elucidate this matter a little:
1) I do all of the household laundry, so my opinion may carry some weight in this particular matter. ?maybe?
2) Refusal is not VETO ... she's a powerful, successful, career woman who could buy a new set at any time.
3) While I may personally refuse to replace my reliable, cost effective, simple to refurb units of my own accord ... that is very different from actively preventing her from going out on her lonesome to acquisition a new pair (which she could do at any time).
4) Now this is where, like you, I'll make an assumption. I'm assuming she'd rather wait for me to be onboard with their replacement, as her time is precious, and she'd rather not deal with associated time loss of said acquisition.
@KoshNaranek , those SpeedQueen commercial units are on my shortlist for the inevitable day I can no longer source parts. They're found in many apartment complexes around here, and never seem to fail.