I feel like I'm playing the devils advocate here, because deep inside I'm with you. but about myself, every time I get a new device to toy with, I use it casually for a few days, and sure enough, just like anybody else, I come up with soundstage this, bass that, less than when I use XX but close to when I use YY...
I might not call it night& day, but I could make a review and be just as ridiculous as most stuff we read everyday.
then I take out the switch and try to match the volumes(not always easy depending on the device, but I try). and of wonders of wonders, differences melt like ice in my mouth. some differences usually stay, but the magnitude goes way down 100% of the time. which makes me think that I'm a living exaggerating machine when I use no control.
already I'm way more moderate and I've done my old reviews that way, sometimes just matching the loudness by ear
. but it was enough already to make me look like a killjoy compared to other reviews.
nowadays I have a few low-fi measurement gear, so matching gear, recording, or doing an almost proper blind test(no double) has become my new normal when it comes to test gears. and the conclusions obviously are way more down to earth.
what if I didn't have all this? what if I had never bought my first switch? IMO, I would still believe that my O2 had way more bass and soundstage than my leckerton (when I fail to tell them apart in blind test). and most likely I would claim it every time the subject would come up.
so really what saves me from making a fool of myself are those gears and knowledge of my very human limitations.
about internet and knowledge, again I agree with the idea, and people who spent 10years in the hobby and still don't know that volume matching matters, they just have no excuse.
but because the audio hobby is such a mess, it's easy to find answers, but pretty hard to be sure they're not BS. I had to unlearn a good deal of preconceptions I got from reading audio reviews by guys who looked like they knew their stuff. so I blame the guy that doesn't even try, but not the guy who tries and get mislead.