Remember the headphones are a passive device so the "-" on the phones is just the ground to complete the electrical signal path for the direction of the current coming from the amp, reversing the wire from one driver just puts it out of phase.
I believe the problem is that many confuse balanced headphone cables to wiring between balanced components, source, amp, etc, which are active devices and subject to grounding and or electrical noise problems,. With balanced cables between components the plus and minus are symmetrical to one another plus there is a ground, this configuration helps cancel any noise and interference picked on long cable runs. Headphone cables which have separate grounds for each driver going to a balanced amp is there just to eliminate any possible cross talk, bleed between channels.
In truth, headphone cables with separate grounds should never have been called balanced, that was a bad idea. lol