Ampersand
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Having followed my DREAM through my first tenure at college and graduated with my dream degree, a few realities have come to light. Telling someone to blindly follow their DREAM job is a little irresponsible. Likewise, telling someone to just get a degree that pays well no matter if you like it or not is also irresponsible. I wish someone had instead told me, "Do what you enjoy as long as it pays enough for you to live comfortably". There is definitely a middle ground. And by the way, "pays enough" changes as you get older. When you start thinking of having a family and buying a house, you're idea of "pays enough" will change significantly. I found out the hard way that my chosen DREAM career would not allow me to have a family and live comfortably at the same time. I'm now in school for another degree. This time, it's one that will interest me as well as "pay enough".
Please, I encourage you to DEEPLY consider the pros and cons of quitting school. Getting your dream job is a 'youthful' ambition, but you must carefully weigh all the realities that come with it.
I wish i had time to write more, but i'm off to school.
Originally Posted by martythestickman /img/forum/go_quote.gif u have 2 options and only 2 options. 1. succumb to societal pressure, complete ur studies, stray from the path u love, and undoubtedly secure an uninspiring, mediocre life for urself, working for the man, living in debt and never having time for anything other than that or, 2. BE OBLIGED TO YOURSELF, AND ONLY YOURSELF. follow YOUR dreams, ride YOUR ambition and passion and take the challenge that SERVES YOU and that YOU know in YOUR heart makes YOU feel complete. the saddest thing in life is regret... GOOD LUCK! |
Having followed my DREAM through my first tenure at college and graduated with my dream degree, a few realities have come to light. Telling someone to blindly follow their DREAM job is a little irresponsible. Likewise, telling someone to just get a degree that pays well no matter if you like it or not is also irresponsible. I wish someone had instead told me, "Do what you enjoy as long as it pays enough for you to live comfortably". There is definitely a middle ground. And by the way, "pays enough" changes as you get older. When you start thinking of having a family and buying a house, you're idea of "pays enough" will change significantly. I found out the hard way that my chosen DREAM career would not allow me to have a family and live comfortably at the same time. I'm now in school for another degree. This time, it's one that will interest me as well as "pay enough".
Please, I encourage you to DEEPLY consider the pros and cons of quitting school. Getting your dream job is a 'youthful' ambition, but you must carefully weigh all the realities that come with it.
I wish i had time to write more, but i'm off to school.