I apply this crazy EQ curve to my modded Somic MH463 and they sound mighty fine
Note the scale spans 10dB for each horizontal line so the EQ curve spans 30dB of gain difference (!)
I modded the MH463 as follows:
1. Changed to fully sealing Hifiman leather pads for better low frequency extension and more importantly, better comfort
2. Taped front vents for better low frequency extension
3. Removed foam behind drivers for more open sound (less internal reflection of sound waves)
But each mod seems to skew the frequency response further from flat
E.g. while (1) and (2) improve the low frequency distortion (the phones can play a 15Hz note at the same loudness with less distortion) they don't seem to improve the low frequency
sensitivity, thus the need for the low frequency boost in the graph. On the other hand, (1) and (3) seem to have tremendously boosted the midbass sensitivity, hence the tremendous dip in the midbass to compensate.
A conventional hardware-only modder would have discarded my current mods as useless since without EQ, these sound worse than stock, but I consider these mods a success combined with EQ
I suppose this is as close as it gets to the OP's preachings
Perhaps in the future, if high quality parametric EQs become widely available on devices, manufacturers can design headphones by maximizing the performance of the headphone+EQ system, rather than just the physical headphones, much like camera lens design for digital cameras has progressed. Cheaper and better headphones
Two caveats:
1. This philosophy frees headphones from having to be designed for a flat frequency response sensitivity curve, but high quality physical design is still required to achieve a high sound pressure at all frequencies without high distortion.
2. The stress on amplifiers becomes greater as the OP notes; the amplifier has to be able to drive headphones to adequate loudness at their least sensitive frequency--this can be many, many dBs below the manufacturer stated sensitivity. In fact, having a wonky EQ curve like this for another pair of phones was what drove me to buy the FiiO E17 in the first place (since my PC sound card couldn't drive the phones loud enough with the EQ in place. The E17 has 12dB of selectable gain and in my testing was the one that went the loudest in its class)