Not true. You just do different types of experiments. The typical study proposed in these forums is a study with a group of untrained observers and as one of the few persons in this forum who has done human experimenting for a living, I can say this is not how research studies of such topics are carried out. Essentially the statistical noise in these studies is just too large and the odds are that you will not find any differences. BTW research journals generally don't publish null results for this reason and because they could be the reuslt fo sloppy experimenting.
The original post is perfectly correct, in comparisons of two sounds at different times, memory and immediate perception are hopelessly confounded, unlike in vison or touch. How might you get around this? One technique is the method of adjustment in which you change the nature of the stimulus as the listener is hearing it to see how much change a listener needs before it is detectable. We do this in vision for example when we change the characteristics of a photo, eg., adding more color. Generally I can see the change as it is happening better than if I were given 2 pictures to compare at the same time. I should add that none of these techniques are perfect and that gaining real knowledge of the senses is quite difficult to achieve.