Clutz
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I've spoken about this a little bit in the past, asking for various bits of advice- but this is a more general question - looking for moral support, philosophical advice, etc.
I absolutely love the city I am living in. I grew up in Toronto, Ontario and moved to Vancouver, British Columbia for graduate school. I love this city - Vancouver. I love the summers, I love the winters, I love the mountains, and I love the ocean. I love our neighbourhood - it's one of the most livable neighbourhoods I've ever been in - maybe not the hippest, but oh-so-livable. We can easily walk to all the stores we need to use on a regular basis, video store is across the street. We love taking our dog for walks through the area, because it's so beautiful and green. In short, I feel very happy, content and more generally at ease than I have ever been in my entire life. I have a psychiatrist I see on a weekly basis whom I think is fabulous. We have family nearby (my in-laws, but I'm very close to them). And I've decided to move to Minneapolis/Saint Paul, MN for a postdoc job - it's actually very close to my dream post-doc job. A postdoc job that will give me a chance to become a professor one day (my dream job!).
But I feel very scared to move. I'm moving my wife from her home city, her friends and family - a job she loves. She won't be able to work for up to 4 months while we wait for her work permit to be processed. I'm moving away from the city I love, a psychiatrist I am very comfortable with.
IN short, I'm moving away from things that are very good, a situation both my wife and I are happy in, to a new environment where our happiness level is unknown, just so that I can have a chance at becoming a University professor. My dream job. I would give myself pretty good odds at being able to get a professors job at a major research University, but not necessarily one of my top university choices. Given what I am about to become trained to do, my guess is that I won't end up back in Canada, because very little of this kind of work is done in Canada, partially because of a lack of funding. It's almost done exclusively in the United States. So by doing this- moving to Minneapolis so I can take a postdoc job that'll let me have a chance at my dream job, which in all probability will require me never again living in my favourite city.
I really, really want to go take this postdoc job. It is going to be doing very cutting edge research, stuff that no one else is doing or has even thought of doing yet. I will have a ton of academic and intellectual freedom. But at the same time, I very much want to stay in Vancouver.
Help!
I absolutely love the city I am living in. I grew up in Toronto, Ontario and moved to Vancouver, British Columbia for graduate school. I love this city - Vancouver. I love the summers, I love the winters, I love the mountains, and I love the ocean. I love our neighbourhood - it's one of the most livable neighbourhoods I've ever been in - maybe not the hippest, but oh-so-livable. We can easily walk to all the stores we need to use on a regular basis, video store is across the street. We love taking our dog for walks through the area, because it's so beautiful and green. In short, I feel very happy, content and more generally at ease than I have ever been in my entire life. I have a psychiatrist I see on a weekly basis whom I think is fabulous. We have family nearby (my in-laws, but I'm very close to them). And I've decided to move to Minneapolis/Saint Paul, MN for a postdoc job - it's actually very close to my dream post-doc job. A postdoc job that will give me a chance to become a professor one day (my dream job!).
But I feel very scared to move. I'm moving my wife from her home city, her friends and family - a job she loves. She won't be able to work for up to 4 months while we wait for her work permit to be processed. I'm moving away from the city I love, a psychiatrist I am very comfortable with.
IN short, I'm moving away from things that are very good, a situation both my wife and I are happy in, to a new environment where our happiness level is unknown, just so that I can have a chance at becoming a University professor. My dream job. I would give myself pretty good odds at being able to get a professors job at a major research University, but not necessarily one of my top university choices. Given what I am about to become trained to do, my guess is that I won't end up back in Canada, because very little of this kind of work is done in Canada, partially because of a lack of funding. It's almost done exclusively in the United States. So by doing this- moving to Minneapolis so I can take a postdoc job that'll let me have a chance at my dream job, which in all probability will require me never again living in my favourite city.
I really, really want to go take this postdoc job. It is going to be doing very cutting edge research, stuff that no one else is doing or has even thought of doing yet. I will have a ton of academic and intellectual freedom. But at the same time, I very much want to stay in Vancouver.
Help!