I personally don't consider the Bricasti M1 SE bright. I would say it is very transparent and honest. It will expose the weakest link in the audio chain including the recording. I have 2 of them. One driving directly a pair of Bricasti M28 monoblocks in balanced mode and at the same time feeding a Wells Audio Engima (with upgrades) from the single ended outputs. Both, the speaker system and the Enigma sound excellent in my opinion and the bass depth and control from the M28 are so good. Those M28 killed my McIntosh MC-601 monoblocks hands down.
The other M1 SE is feeding a McIntosh C2300 preamp and my RSA A10 Thunderbolt Electrostatic amp that I use with the SR-009 and I do not find it bright at all. I am using WireWorld Eclipse 7 (OCC Copper) interconnects.
Musicman - very interested in your findings. We're both running 009s, but your obviously different Amps - and its SS vs Tube (also the preamp obviously).
Have you tried running the M1 directly to your A10? Do you have the network card on your SE? Are you using that or another input.