yes, yes, yes, SDRE's "diary" is probably one of the best albums of emo/indie history. and rising tide isn't too bad neither. just a few more suggestions:
Drive Like Jehu : s/t
this band knows how to rock. very frantic, energetic early (1991) emo. Kinda sounds like "acrobatic tenement" era ATDI, except with less conventional melodies and a more twisted, cynical sound. so tasty, though. BTW, their follow up CD "Yank crime" is excellent as well, and perhaps even more relentless and uncomprimising than the first.
Hot Water Music : forever and counting
an album easily on par with SDRE's diary. beautifully constructed songs, super sincere and emotionally charged. a bit more rock 'n' roll and a bit less whining than most other emo/indie.
Tie That Binds : slowly sinking under
probably the most depressing emo/indie album i own, which is strange, because their sound is less mineral and more punk rock. great, great album, with excellent guitar and drum playing and really good songs too. i have no idea why these guys didn't get more popular.
This week i listened to Sonic Youth's "daydream nation" for the first time.... amazing!
and relatedly, I just saw a band called Blonde Redhead. really good dreamy indie-pop. somehow intense and peaceful at the same time. plus, the singer danced like Blondie.