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I'm not sure which relationship the OP is looking for as well. What you described is how to pick up a one night stand. The one I described for a serious relationship. I guess he can pick between the two to fit his needs. I personally can't go through with a one night stand. It just goes against my morals. But there are girls that like one night stands too. Who am I to judge, right? Good luck OP with whichever you choose.
Originally Posted by Ttvetjanu /img/forum/go_quote.gif Depends entirely on what OP is looking for in a girl. I am personally not interested in relationships (due to my current life situation my future is rather unclear), but I do pick up girls from bars/clubs once in a while. Confidence is most important. I would not recommend staring at girls as this generally makes you look like a stalker. Everyone has their only style, to try to adapt someone else's would feel strange. What I tend to do is make eye contact and smile or sometimes smile and wink at the girl I am interested in. I have also "proposed toasts" from long distances (lifted my glass). If I get any positive reactions, for example a blush, smiling back or a returned toast I will probably go talk with her later. Not straight away, but for example if my friend is getting a drink or going to the toilet. It would be too intimidating just to stand up and start walking towards her while she is looking. I like to ask rather random, sometimes even offensive questions. Girls don't really expect that. If they look too shocked I'll just laugh and say it was a joke and "how are you?". If they respond to the question I have already started an interesting conversation. Being well-groomed is not really that necessary (at least not considering facial hair), girls (at least here in Finland) seem to like a manly looking guy, and a little beard never hurts. Besides if you are always cleanly shaved with perfect hair and a neat ironed shirt it might seem like you are trying a bit too hard. This though depends on the age-group in question. Personally I am 21. Good luck OP. |
I'm not sure which relationship the OP is looking for as well. What you described is how to pick up a one night stand. The one I described for a serious relationship. I guess he can pick between the two to fit his needs. I personally can't go through with a one night stand. It just goes against my morals. But there are girls that like one night stands too. Who am I to judge, right? Good luck OP with whichever you choose.