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Originally Posted by Stephonovich
Why impose a personal ban on a member simply because you disagree with them, or find them annoying?
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Do you remember the 'useless post' debacle?, or the cursing debacle?, or the flamers and trolls?
For awhile it seemed as if we were running ramshod with unruly kiddies. It wouldn''t have been too bad had their childish behaviour been confined to their little playpen, but because their antics infected the rest of the community, when their behaviour crossed over to other threads, it became a distraction.
It's a credit to the community that it regulated itself. The mature members came forth and provided guidance for the youngsters. The moderators brooked no offence and kept this site running smoothly by 'nipping trouble in the bud,' before it could infect the rest of the community.
Childish beahaviour cannot be tolerated otherwise the site and community will drive away members and will denegrate to the lowest common denominator. What you end up with is constant contention amongst the members; flame wars everwhere, personal attacks, the abuse of the PM and email system, etc.
Personal disagreements are no reason to ignore someone; neither is finding someone annoying. We as adults recognise that not everyone can agree with us. If however someone feels that someone has a personal vendetta against someone, who enlists the assistance of like-minded community members to attack another community member, who seeks to quote from past posts to further enflame, then that person should be put on one's ignore list.
We all have prejudices and harbour animosity against others. But one can decide to conform to decorum, be civil, make their point of view known. One does not have to respond with rancor; one can decide to respond with understanding and not 'in kind.'
We all have problems in our real lives which cross over to our psuedo-personal relations (forum communities); we all have bad days, weeks, months and years. We can support each other or exacerbate and enflame the misery.
If a troll comes amongst us if enough members ignore him he will probably leave or must change and conform to the rules set forth by Jude, the moderators, and community member standards.