Senn, It's clear you're really not getting the point here.
1) Firstly, the reason some people may have hassled you in regards to your hornet offer may have been because your post was made right after the seller chose to explain that the Hornet was withdrawn from sale. He emphasised that he was going to give it some more time, and if he didn't like it after the burn-in then he would SEND it back to Ray for a full refund - meaning NO SALE. Either you chose to blatantly ignore this, or you didn't fully comprehend...Either way, I'm not trying to criticise you on this point, I just want to make it more clear to you. What Jahn is saying is if you want to avoid such things, it is be best to contact the seller through PM and not publicly so you are not open to any criticisms. All he is trying to do is help you out, for future reference.
2) You are not in a position to make derogatory comments/judgements in regards to the seller's apology or the product for that matter. Like you said, ultimately it is the consumer's decision to make their own judgements of the product. In this case, no one forced the seller to make the apology, it was done as a gesture of goodwill. Most importantly, this decision was made purely by himself as he clearly stated. Meaning not YOU, not ME, not anyone else in this forum had a hand in the matter. So without any background knowlege of the surrounding circumstances (only fairy assumptions), who are you to say that what he did was right or wrong? It's not as simple as buying a Sony widescreen TV and returning it to some random electronic store the next day.
3) People on this forum are only trying to help you with your questions - from your responses though, it seems like all you want to do is cause flames and create arguments with whatever advice people here are giving you. That's commonly referred to as "trolling". You could always put it in a nice way if you do not agree with someone, rather than trying to pick an argument.
Hope that cleared things up for you.
-chungsoi