The PS1000 is probably the least flat and the most musical of the three HP--musical or euphonic is usually the crutch I use when I like what I hear but have no idea how to explain it...No, you are not duplicating. The PS1000 does not sound like any other headphones. In addition to the severe V-shape FR, I think it is the slow decay with this HP that gives it that rich signature Grado sound.
The PS1000 has even a more severe V-shape FR than the TH900, thus more "bloom" in the bass and more tendency to sibilance. It sounds best to me with very high-quality amps with clean midrange but very tight control of the bass (to avoid bloated sound) and very sweet treble (to steer away from sibilance). The HeadAmp GS-X Mk2 and the Bakoon HPA-21 are two SS amps that I like a lot with the PS1000. Both SS amps produce musical sound with punchy bass, airy mid-range with plenty of inner details, and smooth treble, with the Bakoon being warmer in the midrange and the GS-X Mk2 being silkier in the high frequencies.
Absent the control of both frequency extremes, you can compromise with inexpensive tube amps that are rolled off at both ends (bass and treble) such as the inexpensive MAD Ear+ HD, which is my favorite amp with the PS1000. Or if money is no object, two other tube amps that pair well with the PS1000 are the Woo WA5 and the EAR HP-4. With these superb but expensive amps--you are dropping about 5 grands here with upgraded tubes and all--the brightness (sibilance and harshness) of the PS1000 is reduced to a very low level though not entirely eliminated. There are many other excellent tube amps that can achieve excellent sound with the PS1000 (Apex Teton and Pinnacle; Eddie Current 2A3 and EC 445...) but I have not heard them long enough to make a recommendation.
The bottom line is, with one of these four amps, the GS-X Mk2 or Bakoon HPA-21 for SS, the Woo WA5 (LE if you do not need power for the HE-6) or EAR HP-4 for tubes, you should be able to handle all three headphones (Grado PS1000,m HD800 and TH900).
I apologize to everyone for derailing this TH900 thread but I felt compelled to complete the answer to deuter's multi-faceted question.