Happy to hear that you were able to save the tube. I would say that if the solder starts to seep out you should discontinue heating the pin - the 30 seconds of heat is just a general guide.
This method is only for crackling and popping noises. For hum and microphonics it may help to stretch tight a band of high temperature self fusing silicone tape (available for automotive and plumbing use) around the glass.
Regarding the tube glow in a tube, it may differ from one tube to other, perhaps because of how the internal components were assembled. If the tubes sound the same I would not worry if one has less glow than the other.
As an aside, I have noticed that pairs of the same tube may show different temperature readings with no discernible effect on the sound.
If I remember correctly the tube was not lightning at all when I tried it last time. So maybe the melting solved a path issue there and now it started to work as expected. I do not hear differences betweend them, I switched left to right just to be sure and seems fine.