Hey guys, let us try to keep this as civil as possible. Maybe we could put the bottom drawer BS in the top drawer, under lock 'n key?
As for the OP, hey, burn out happens. In fact, I think it is important to continually question. The search for certainty is in the questioning. At some point the ideal is to stop questioning about certain things and start questioning other things. But that is an ideal. So questioning this hobby = good. Slamming folks for being involved or not being involved = bad in my books.
This hobby, mmm this hobby, and I will call it a hobby, I've learned about acoustics, music reproduction technics, technical specs, EE, soldering, DIY. I've been introduced to new forms of music, new artists. I've met new people, both online and in real life. I've formed friendships with folks here that I feel are stronger than most of my "off-line" friendships. I've spent money, I've made money, I've lost money. I've helped others, and I have been helped by so many. My emotions have run the gamut from off the wall excited, to elated, to sublime to irritated, frustrated to downright angry.
If the above does not encompass a hobby, then I don't know what does. I don't think it is a joke at all. Anything that helps me to learn or encourages me to learn is a tool. It is useful. Anything that brings me more joy and relaxation than irritation and frustration is a good thing, a useful tool. Anything that unifies me with great people, and seemingly drawing more and more together, is a good thing. This hobby, this community is no joke.
However, the act of perpetual upgrading...maybe that can be classified as a sickness
We don't offer condolensces upon arrival for nothing. It sure ain't for the wallet, we just make it out to sound that way
I like it here. I like how headphones and audiophilia in general encourages me to investigate my music more. How it has guided me into new avenues of the art of music making, taking me down paths I never thought I would venture. Hip hop? Country? Heck Bluegrass? Yep, I've tried them all now and I even like some choice cuts here and there. Fantastic. I won't deem this exclusive or unique to this hobby, but certainly without it I may have been missing out. No!,
I know I would have been.
Now then, falling victim to the hurd mentality...well, maybe once, but multiple times? Maybe some introspection is required, but that is on an individual basis. Many don't do the buy and sell when something bigger and better, the uberest newest bestest thing is created, you know, since last week! Heck...since yesterday! Of course, folks that do this have other issues, and this would be evident in any hobby. OCness will be be apparent no matter what the hobby. Other mental quirks will as well.
Am I disappointed I've spent as much money as I have? No. If not here than where? I can think of many ways I could have spent my money. Anything beyond philanthropic outfits would have either meant into other hobbies and/or other possessions. If one urges charity, well what if I came back and claimed that my super enjoyment of music through my system invigorated me! granted me the energy to work harder and make more money, money that I do donate...but would otherwise not have been there. Hmmm, circular perhaps, impossible to verify...and in the end...who cares? We do what we do. There is no joke here provided no one is getting hurt, no one is getting screwed and everyone is having fun.
Sometimes folks do get hurt, screwed and sometimes this place isn't fun. As a community we try to limit that. As folks engrossed in a hobby, we need happy people for it to flourish and for the most part, people are stand-up. When this is not the case, it is a reflection of real-life, you know that reality that creeps into all things? Even hobbies...those areas we delve into to sometimes escape real-life, if not elevate it to a new plateau.
I laugh a lot with this hobby. I smile a lot while listening to me gear. But a joke it is not, at least not to me.