Interesting to note that you've just replied to a post that was written nearly a year ago (30th March 2010). So, I'm wondering whether you're searching all threads that have to do with your recently purchased Etymotic IEM - which you so much like - and bump said threads so that everyone takes notice of the Etys and/ or take the opportunity to express your disaffection for the UM3Xs. And while you're at it ,why not mention, too, that you are the only person on Head-fi who found the $850 Westone ES3X customs "mediocre"?
There, just bumped the thread for you.