rickcr42
Are YOU talkin' to me?
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too late !
It is also my observation that a hetero man who knows who he is and is comfortable in his manhood has no problem with another male hugging him.I sepnt many years being emotionally cut off and the idea of human contact other than sexual not something i was comfortable with no matter who it was initiating contact.No kissing the family,no holding anyones babies,no "goodbye" hugs or pecks on the cheek to ANYONE unless i planned on sleeping with that person but luckily my wife and children broke me doen and showed me a better way.Solo and "ultracoo;" untouchable may work in the movies and mysterious with the ladies but being emotionally cut off is more surviving the day than it is living a full life.
I hug at the drop of a hat these days and human physical contact no longer feels like I have been stabbed in the gut or sets my defensive mode on alert.my defense has always been offense and my feelings always crystal clear by intention so I pretty much gave a "hands off or else" attitude for more years than I like to admit.
Arms length was my perimiter and once the line crossed and my space invaded (even with the best of intentions) someone was in trouble
The world needs much much more non sexual touching is my thought.Hugs,kisses,sitting so close to another that a siamese twin would be jealous,neck rubs or back rubs for no reason than you think someone needs it,"old school" handshakes......non threatening and no sexual physical contact just to enjoy the moment and to let another human know the day is better for their being there.
Saved me from becoming a very lonely old man sitting in a room with no one caring if i survived the day or fell down in the shower and snapped my neck.Family and ferinds is your immortality
Too long winded and serious !
hell yes ! But how things are and always have been done in "Ricksville" U.S.A.
Hugs all around from the rickmonster.
wait, no dudes though. But me. |
too late !
It is also my observation that a hetero man who knows who he is and is comfortable in his manhood has no problem with another male hugging him.I sepnt many years being emotionally cut off and the idea of human contact other than sexual not something i was comfortable with no matter who it was initiating contact.No kissing the family,no holding anyones babies,no "goodbye" hugs or pecks on the cheek to ANYONE unless i planned on sleeping with that person but luckily my wife and children broke me doen and showed me a better way.Solo and "ultracoo;" untouchable may work in the movies and mysterious with the ladies but being emotionally cut off is more surviving the day than it is living a full life.
I hug at the drop of a hat these days and human physical contact no longer feels like I have been stabbed in the gut or sets my defensive mode on alert.my defense has always been offense and my feelings always crystal clear by intention so I pretty much gave a "hands off or else" attitude for more years than I like to admit.
Arms length was my perimiter and once the line crossed and my space invaded (even with the best of intentions) someone was in trouble

The world needs much much more non sexual touching is my thought.Hugs,kisses,sitting so close to another that a siamese twin would be jealous,neck rubs or back rubs for no reason than you think someone needs it,"old school" handshakes......non threatening and no sexual physical contact just to enjoy the moment and to let another human know the day is better for their being there.
Saved me from becoming a very lonely old man sitting in a room with no one caring if i survived the day or fell down in the shower and snapped my neck.Family and ferinds is your immortality
Too long winded and serious !
hell yes ! But how things are and always have been done in "Ricksville" U.S.A.

Hugs all around from the rickmonster.
