Er uh, the movie can't be too loud. There's a volume knob next to the project just like there is on your amps at home. Maybe you meant to say that the Lord of the Rings was too dynamic--that is, it had whispers and for the whispers to be easily audbile, the noises that were intentionally loud were uncomfortably loud.
More likely, though is this --
When other action movies are playing in theaters next door (like for instance, other prints of Lord of the Rings), they set the volume a ltitle higher. If ANY one person complains in a theater that its too quiet, the volume gets set a little higher. More complaints are generated that it's too quiet than that it's too loud. (The same reasoning is why theaters are so cold in the summer in Texas--you can't please everyone and erring on the side of too cold results in less whiney customers.)
I bet I sound like an ex-projectionist. Fancy that.
I prefer my movies and television to be equal to a real life experience in volume. I like talking to sound like talking and gunshots to be as loud as gunshots. For action movies, this results in people watching in my home theater complaining that it's too loud. With TV shows, people complain even more. It's just expectations. The average person doesn't turn their TV up loud because it sounds like crap, but they've gotten used to "THX" loudness. (The audience is now deaf.)
IMHO, the trend of making movies too loud began due to the THX installations. As you all know, if you increase the volume slightly in an AB test with a quality amplifier, most listeners will tell you that the louder one sounds "better" (no duh, you can hear more detail - it's louder). Thus when they went to see movies in theaters that were advertised to be in (Dolby Surround, Dolby SR, THX Dolby Surround, DTS, Dolby Digital, etc etc) the volume bumps kept coming. So now the expectation seems to be louder than real life.
Ironic, since the same people turn their TVs so low that I can't hear the characters speaking clearly from the other side of the room. But that's how it goes.
And then Golem and the evil one crept up and ran away with her.
Kelly