Wow congrats. But as a veteran in Tales games I'll help you out.
You might want to play Tales of Destiny on the Ps1. Need a walkthrough thou and cheats. But it's great. Very very funny game. PC ps1 emulator. Watch the 10mins gameplay classic!! 10/10
Second try Tales of phantasia on the SNES. Need cheats and walkthrough thou. It's great but if you want a superior version get the Japanese PS1 version translated in English. It's very nice.
If you can not handle 2D sprites for some strange reason. Get Tales of Vesperia !!
Tales of Vesperia will be my highest recommendation out of Destiny.
Vesperia soundtrack is superior
Examples,
1.The cold morning star
2. A vow of unity
3. Impenetrable wall
And the whole soundtrack
Then is Tales of symphonia but I prefer Tales of Destiny 2 / Eterina
Then Tales of Grace and Abyss are a tie for me and the rest follows
Cheers