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LOL! 24 votes for "churros"
My Ex Tried to Contact me On Facebook - What Should I Do?
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I voted for churros.
Just ignore her.
Just ignore her.
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Unless you want to get some on the side, take the next step. Block her as$!
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Ignore, best choice imo.
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If she's far enough, say a couple countries down... Heh. block.
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IGNORE!
This has happened to me as well. I hit the decline button all the time. When I don't - I ignore.
Ex's are ex's for a reason. Don't ever forget that. Once a relationship is over there is no looking back - at least for me.
This has happened to me as well. I hit the decline button all the time. When I don't - I ignore.
Ex's are ex's for a reason. Don't ever forget that. Once a relationship is over there is no looking back - at least for me.
Don't forget to check in your privacy settings what parts of your profile can be seen by friends of friends of publicly. She might have friended your sister because it gives her more things she can access.
Anyway, the more focus you are giving on any woman (at all) other than your gf is energy not being put into your relationship.
Anyway, the more focus you are giving on any woman (at all) other than your gf is energy not being put into your relationship.
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Hit it.
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Nice. Great advice.
This one is easy. If you want your life to be simple(r); it's ignore.
If you are a person than can manage something like talking to an ex and handling your current gf (which is slim % of the male population that really can btw) then go with what Wayne said.
Oh here are the best churros I've had.
More like cake actually...
| Originally Posted by Wmcmanus /img/forum/go_quote.gif Hit it. |
Nice. Great advice.
This one is easy. If you want your life to be simple(r); it's ignore.
If you are a person than can manage something like talking to an ex and handling your current gf (which is slim % of the male population that really can btw) then go with what Wayne said.
Oh here are the best churros I've had.
More like cake actually...
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You underestimate the cunning desperate women out there. She tracked him down after 10 years to find out if it "really was him"? How does he even know if she really is not in the area? She is now friends with his sister?
You friggin nuts?
Stay the hell away!!!
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He said "hit it" not "reply to it"
One in the hand is better than two in the *cough* bush...
| Originally Posted by deltaspirit /img/forum/go_quote.gif Wow, the answer is simple. Accept her friend invite, tell her you're currently in a serious relationship, and it would be not very loyal to your partner if you started contact with her. Then present your handy work to your partner. If done right, you will be rewarded. |
You underestimate the cunning desperate women out there. She tracked him down after 10 years to find out if it "really was him"? How does he even know if she really is not in the area? She is now friends with his sister?
You friggin nuts?
Stay the hell away!!!
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| Originally Posted by AC1 /img/forum/go_quote.gif If you are a person than can manage something like talking to an ex and handling your current gf (which is slim % of the male population that really can btw) then go with what Wayne said. |
He said "hit it" not "reply to it"
One in the hand is better than two in the *cough* bush...
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I don't think I should be explaining to her like I have a partner and not really interested in talking to her, I mean that will sound a bit awkward and cruel and she'll probably think :"well who the *beep* do you think you are?".
Maybe just pretend I've never seen her messages eh? It's a shame really (well not really a shame since I have a wonderful partner), but if I were single and free I would've enjoyed some sexy time with her.
Maybe just pretend I've never seen her messages eh? It's a shame really (well not really a shame since I have a wonderful partner), but if I were single and free I would've enjoyed some sexy time with her.
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I know what Wayne said and meant. I use the term "talking to" loosly as in leading to something.
It's clear she wants something whether you want to use each other or not is up to you and if you can manage it. Usually it gets messy.
| Originally Posted by roadtonowhere08 /img/forum/go_quote.gif He said "hit it" not "reply to it" One in the hand is better than two in the *cough* bush... |
I know what Wayne said and meant. I use the term "talking to" loosly as in leading to something.
It's clear she wants something whether you want to use each other or not is up to you and if you can manage it. Usually it gets messy.
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Ahh, what a hilarious and delightful thread. "... would've enjoyed some sexy time with her." lol
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Gotcha.
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Yeah, it does. When it comes to this kind of topic, I play the numbers game. I could care less when people say, "oh but we ended on good terms..." Odds are this will get very ugly based on what the OP has said thus far.
Having said that, juggling women with no commitment is one thing, but the OP is in a committed relationship. Getting with the ex. under these circumstances is just wrong, and he will end up with nothing but a rash...
| Originally Posted by AC1 /img/forum/go_quote.gif I know what Wayne said and meant. I use the term "talking to" loosly as in leading to something. |
Gotcha.
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| Originally Posted by AC1 /img/forum/go_quote.gif It's clear she wants something whether you want to use each other or not is up to you and if you can manage it. Usually it gets messy. |
Yeah, it does. When it comes to this kind of topic, I play the numbers game. I could care less when people say, "oh but we ended on good terms..." Odds are this will get very ugly based on what the OP has said thus far.
Having said that, juggling women with no commitment is one thing, but the OP is in a committed relationship. Getting with the ex. under these circumstances is just wrong, and he will end up with nothing but a rash...
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