ProtegeManiac
Headphoneus Supremus
Agreed that another person might have a more productive, easier to counter response. But you're causing yourself and others frustration because it's entertaining to you?
There was already some discussion in this very thread about the difficulties of online communication, wherein Jaywalk3r and I both admitted to having difficulty knowing how we would come across to others and also how difficult it is to interpret others' intentions and true meanings. Jaywalk3r said something about being interpreted as a jerk when that isn't his intention, and then he apologized for potentially unintentionally coming across that way. I think this could be safely extended to any person and any intention: you, me, other posters in this thread; jerk-ish, kind, funny, arrogant, etc. You mean to come across one way, you're interpreted another. If a person's tone of voice and body language aren't available, I think this is perfectly acceptable and even expected.
So, with that in mind, it seems to me that Jaywalk3r didn't necessarily introduce "Bob" arrogantly, but you did necessarily interpret it that way. You're projecting something onto his/her arguments that you don't actually know, namely an arrogant attitude.
Jaywalk3r has disclosed his/her difficulty in accurately projecting his/her attitude, knows interpretations will differ, and even apologized for a discrepancy between intention and interpretation. I interpret this as his/her having at least some self-awareness and humility.
You project attitudes and feelings that you don't know exist onto another person and admit to frustrating other people for your own entertainment. I interpret this as arrogance and lack of self-awareness. I doubt that this is how you want or intend to be interpreted.
Well it seems you'll have a better time communicating with him, so instead of trying to get him off the track he's taking (and not necessarily onto a specific track I'd like him to take, just to cease where he is), so I'll just leave him to you.
To be fair, I interpreted Jay's replies the same way. They seemed condescending and arrogant while accusing others of that behavior. I'm sure many of us struggle with setting the correct tone in our responses, but OP's messages seemed rather pointed in his attempts to discredit all conflicting viewpoints from a position of perceived arrogance.
That said, this is a little off topic and doesn't contribute much to the discussion of the original post.
Even if it's already slightly off topic compared to my on topic responses that he's making to be sooooooo evil, maybe megabigeye can have better luck with this guy.
Back on the topic of the post, Jaywalk3r, could you please explain the what you meant by "we" in the original post? Do you mean people as a whole, head-fi as a website, the headphones community, or what? This is my third attempt to solicit a response to this question.
He means the subforum headings.