[monolith]

From what you've posted, the Livewires sound like they'd be more up your alley.

Those or the UM2s.

 

[essasin]

The Livewires fit your bill perfectly except I do not think I can lay on my side without feeling like I'm pushing the iem into my ear. The connector sticks out your ear ever so slightly and it gives it a little push if I'm my side.