I agree with you completely that if you compare the 2A3 side by side with the 845 on the Abyss, the 2A3 will seem inadequate. With first impressions, we are generally drawn more to the shinier object and the 845 is a supernova. However, the more time I have spent with both amps and as I have gotten more accustomed to the power of the 845, it has become easier to appreciate what the 2A3 brings to the table and I have found the shadow that the 845 casts over the 2A3 is now less dramatic. With that said, I have never heard a more grand presentation than what I have heard with the Abyss connected to the 845. It is truly spectacular.
One more thing to consider for those thinking about pairing the 845 with the Abyss is fatigue. I have found, for example, that I can listen to the 2A3 with the LCD-3F seemingly forever and not feel tired (except that the LCD-3 is too tight for my head). It is that smooth and engaging. At some point, the 845 with the Abyss can get a bit too much mainly because the Abyss doesn't sound as good when played at low levels and so I find that I have to play it louder to appreciate it. My French friend is fond of telling me that when he wants to go out for a special occasion, he likes to order filet mignon, but on any other evening, he prefers "comfort food" like the ratatouille that his wife makes. If headphone listening is a special event for you and you want to a grand performance each time you listen, then the 845 with the Abyss is for you but if you listen frequently and for long periods of time and your preference is more to chill and relax, you might actually prefer the 2A3.
If it sounds like I prefer the 2A3 over the 845, I do not, at least not yet. Truth be told, from one moment to the next, I find myself going back and forth but I take comfort in knowing that I cannot make a wrong decision.