For winter, all you really need is front wheel drive with a manual transmission. A 4x4 is unnecessary and can be dangerous. Except for Subaru AWD, most 4x4s have a high center of gravity. Very, very dangerous when things are slippery. The slight increase in traction comes at the risk of a rollover.
When I lived in the Northwest, the first sign of winter was an Explorer on its side. Out east, every winter was greeted by a lifted 4x4 full of high school students that overtuned and killed everyone. Then there were hand-wringing candlelight vigils for the dead, etc.
Meanwhile, I was bored stiff out there and took my '95 Escort 5 speed freakin' everywhere. I drove offroad over the old logging roads. FWD and being able to drop into low gear got me out of all sorts of trouble. A 4x4 is only useful if you're mud bogging, limited situations on ice or climbing over big rocks. Otherwise, FWD and a manual will get you through mostly anything. The lift kit people are compensating for small genitals. Nothing is more unsafe than a high center of gravity when things are slippery.
I agree with Anaxilux about Toyota quality. I'm sold on it. However, I still love old American iron. The straight six engines from GM and Ford are some of the best ever. We have a '66 Mustang convertible with a 200 straight six and a 4-speed. What a great car. I also lust after a '51-'54 Packard with a straight 8. Not the most efficient, but they'll last forever with routine maintenance. Also, they'll get more attention than a new $70k "luxury" car with hideoulsy buggy electronics.