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http://www.head-fi.org/t/551426/my-eq-curves-for-lcd-2-hd650-m50-and-007mk2/30 I think lunatiques EQ curve is one of the nicer sounding ones I used so far with my old M50s.
You have to pick it up slowly, you will have to play around a bit, don't follow 'all in one' solutions. Know which frequencies play which role. If you can, you may like to invest in a small mic and analog to digital converter(ADC) if you buy more expensive headphones to help you know which frequencies really need boosting(if you would like to go pro/ just prefer neutrality) and general measurements.
As for soundstage, there was someone who actually wrote a really definitive(well maybe, its LONG) but I can't find it atm. Otherwise for me, simply put, it is the illusion of an acoustic environment like how different would you hear the same instruments at say a concert hall, theater or recording studio. Its defined usually by depth and height and probably measured(or rather predicted not so sure) by phase response(correct me if I'm wrong). Usually, speakers have a better soundstage as they are not so "in the head" as headphones are though some can come close to speakers(usually defined as large/wide soundstage) like the Sennheiser's HD800(probably the most exaggerated example) and the use of digital signal processing(DSP) like crossfeeding(also on analog), head related transfer function(HRFT). Amps/ digital to analog converters(DACs) employing crossfeed or similar techniques include the Smyth Realiser DACs, Phonitor, Lavry DA11. Virtual Studio Technology(or VSTs) can also be employed to the same effect with audio players (for windows, I recommend Jriver Media Center), examples are Tonebooster Isone, Redline monitor.
http://www.recordingeq.com/Subscribe/tip/tascam.htm This can be pretty useful, if you use it correctly.
http://www.innerfidelity.com/ is one of the best sites out there for anything headphone related. Tyll(the main writer) is doing some really great work out there. I also advice you on reading the amp measurements article on the site too, it should be pretty much answer a lot of your questions.
You can also look around for some good articles from benchmarkmedia, as like all commercial sites don't take it way too seriously.
For all in ear stuff, you can head over to
http://www.inearmatters.net/ for ClieOS extensive reviews.
More headphone stuff from
http://www.headfonia.com/
If you would like a book on audio, I think
http://www.amazon.com/Audio-Engineering-Explained-Douglas-Self/dp/0240812735 summarises and recommends more reference material really well. If you search around, it might even be in a library, as it was in mine(polytechnic library.)
I think I will stop here for the moment, seems like you have enough to read atm ^^;
As for college-fi, you and I are on the same boat, advice is,never rush into getting something, take your time(if you can, go for local meets or try out at the local shop). Oh ya, and of course, buy cds.