@jude, look me up. I *may* be able to help, if I can find my SE cable for my PM-1. I have a stock cable, shortened and terminated to mini XLR, then 3 adapters made out of the remaining cable for 1/4, 1/8 and 4 pin XLR in balanced configuration. The whole cable is about 5' long with one of the ends. I'm cool with running my PM-1 in SE if you need the balanced cable.
Also, one minor gear change -
@aamefford
Headphones:
Mr. Speakers' Alpha Prime
Oppo PM-1
Oppo PM-3
Sources:
Oppo HA-1
Oppo HA-2
Last note - depending on how much I like the Ether, any of the above (except the PM-3) may be for sale.... If you have interest, let me know.
EDIT - I thought an Ether would be at the meet, but checking the gear list, maybe not?