The tonality of the two is the main difference IMO. I find the Dita more tuned towards mastering purposes, as opposed to the IE800 which I find are much more natural sounding. What I mean by natural is that vocals and instruments sound like what I hear in real life(live performance), I find the timbre of the Dita a bit lacking(the Dita does drums exceptionally well though), they sound "cold" whereas the IE800 expresses quite a bit more "emotion" in the music.
The vocals on the Dita are more forward compared to the IE800, bass and treble are about the same with maybe a slight advantage to the IE800(Dita do sound less peaky if memory serves). At first listen, I thought the Dita resolves micro-details better but upon further listening, I find that those micro-details are also present in the IE800, just not as obvious as the Dita portrays them. That said, I don't remember getting fatigued listening to the Dita but the IE800 are certainly more laid back - music just flows without throwing every little details my way unless I specifically want to look out for them. Dita is more suitable for portable use, its cable is very supple and has zero microphonics, whereas IE800 it is not at all ideal to use on-the-go. Neither has isolation like BA-based IEMs, but I find the Dita isolate a little better than the IE800. As for fit, I tend to get a sore on my left ear after 1-3 hours with the Dita while the IE800 is probably the most comfortable and fuss-free IEM I've ever had.
Both are fine IEMs in their own rights, in terms of technicality I'd say they are about par, in the end I think it comes down to the type of sound sig you are after and how much you intend to use them on-the-go. I very much prefer the IE800 myself.