I graduated from high school in 1995 and I was definitely in the bottom half of my graduating class. I had a heck of a lot of personal difficulties during my HS years. Since then, I've been in some form of higher education for the past eight years. I've been to one community college and three universities.
What I have learned?
Education is an important commodity. In America, having a college degree is becoming a more prevalent commodity among employers. That piece of paper can literally open or close doors. Yet, most people become apprehensive or defensive about this fact. When one door closes, another door will open...if you spot it opening up. Yet, my feelings about the value of education are tempered by my firm belief that there is something more important than education itself: passionate drive and purpose in your life. What do I mean by the word drive? I mean that having an education and degrees is important but without having the "fire in the belly," education can turn into a bigger, more expensive, and longer version of HS in your life. It is my firm belief that combining both an education and mastering "motivational programs" will produce the best possible GPAs, standardized exam scores, and a better quality of life. What do I mean? If you decide to go to a community college right away or take some time to find out more about yourself, then realize right away that investing in a "motivational program" may produce the best and most enduring results in your life. For example, please consider this idea: instead of spending a few hundred dollars on a next headphone, PCDP, headphone amplifier, etc. consider investing in one of Tony Robbins' products. Who is Tony Robbins? He is a peak performance coach. He has the knowledge, experience, and charisma to help you focus on the "majors" of life. You will learn from him how to focus on these major areas of your life -- health, finances, passion, relationships, emotions, etc. -- and harness your full potential by learning simple, easy to follow, and proven technologies that will train your brain to focus your mind on improving each area of your life.
You might be skeptical, as I once was, or you may just laugh, as I once did so myself. But consider this: I bought TR's Personal Power II program in September 2000. Since then, I have graduated from Essex County College in Newark, NJ with an Associate's Degree in Liberal Arts with High Honors (3.68 cumulative GPA). I was accepted to Montclair State University in Upper Montclair, NJ with a full scholarship (they pay me $1300 dollars each semester in a refund check to go to their school). Last semester while I worked on the PPII program, I got a 3.7 GPA. In the fall 2003 semester, I got a 2.66 GPA because I wasn't working on any "motivational program" at that time in my life. Today, I have a written goals for my academic plans. I am on schedule toward my eagerly anticipated graduation date of May 2004. I have written goals as they pertain to the next 8 years that I will dedicate my life to pursuing graduate studies. For example, I plan on earning a Master's Degree in American Fiction from The College of New Jersey and graduating Magna cum Laude. As another example, I plan to pursue a Ph.D. program in American Fiction from Cornell, the University of Pennsylvania, or Columbia Universities...and I am absolutely certain that I will make my academic dream of being Ivy League educated because through the PPII program I have been working on instilling an unshakeable beliefs system within me. "I can do anything through Christ which strengthened me."
Yet, it's not all about academics either for me. While working on the PPII program, I have written the top five 1 year goals for my life. I have reached one of my top five goals: buying the Grado RS-1 headphones. I have finally found the leverage within me to lose 55 pounds and keep it off for at least 3 consecutive years. To that end, I have bought two books -- the Navy SEAL Nutrition Guide and Workout and am applying them slowly, little by little, each day. As a result, I am losing a little bit of weight each week by sticking to my reduced calorie diet and my exercise regimen. I am also taking control of my excessive spending habits by buying a book called the Good $ense Budget Course. Now, I am devising a liveable budget and am living within my means. I'm saving up $3500 dollars to finance my dream of becoming a professional, competitive, rifleman. Each day, I work a little bit by listening to each CD in the PPII program and doing the daily exercise. So, I am getting closer to realizing another one of my top five 1 year written goal of mastering the entire PPII program by the end of this summer.
Back on the topic of education, it is all in your mindset. The value of a good education is priceless because education can lift up the human mind and heart by instilling hope in each of us. Education can lead open up doors of new possibilities and opportunities. Yet, to do it right and do right by yourself you MUST absolutely be committed to doing your best with what you have when you can.
So, I would recommend you to consider taking action on three things in the near future. First, invest a $260 dollars and buy Personal Power II. Commit yourself to mastering as much of the program in small chunks each day. Second, do the best that you can academically by studying harder and longer while in HS. Improve your GPA as much as possible with the time left. To that end, I would recommend that you improve your study skills by buying books on the matter. For example, buy the paperback edition of Evelyn Wood's Speed Reading and Learning Course and buy Studen Success Secrets or Essential Study Skills. Read them thoroughly. Highlight important ideas and take notes from these books. Most importantly, take consistent action daily in the form of setting small, clearly defined, and achievable study goals each day. You will develop the habit of training your mind to focus on a specific target and finding a way to hit the bullyseye. This in turn will forge a new character within you to not only improve your chances of getting a good education but living a better quality of life. Also, be sure to start talking to your HS guidance counselor more oftenly. Ask him or her for advice about different options for finding the school that fits you best and is affordable. Start looking at a Petersen's Guide of Colleges (2003 - 2004 editions) and do research on local community colleges in your area. Call up the admissions departments at each CC and talk to them. Be sure to do this: ask yourself the question: "what is it that I would want to get up early in the morning and stay up late at night learning or doing as a career in my life? What am I most passionate about doing with my life?" Answer that question and find the appropriate major in college that will best suit it. Third, I would recommend prayer. If you don't believe in God, then that is your decision. But, I would strongly urge you to reconsider. The power of daily prayer is incredible. Think about it: by praying, you have access to the most important being in the entire universe at any time in your life!
This thread has triggered a lot of raw emotions in me. Whatever you may think about my personal character or reputation since I have been online in this community, know this: I want to see the best in people. I want people to do the best that they can in their lives with whatever resources they were gifted from God whenever they have the time to do so. I am simply trying to help you by giving you the best of my mind, my heart, and my willingness to help others who have the courage to ask for help.