i don't want people getting the idea i am a violent man, i am not. i can count the number of fights i've been in on one hand. i wrestled in high school, and that's about it. if he starts something, i'll finish it, but i'm not looking to make the situation worse.
my temper flairs when i hear that "thump thump thump" from above. which makes it hard, because that is the best time to confront him, when the music is up.
in any case, i do have a great deal of self control, but everyone has their limits. after the apt manager talked to him it has been quiet, so i'm content for right now. i also feel better knowing there are other legal avenues for me to pursue just in case.
this thread got much larger than i intended. i guess this is a problem many of us deal with, especially these days when hi-fi stores are pushing stereos with big fat subwoofers, and music with big fat bass (not to mention car stereos). the noise laws need to be amended to take these new issues into account. subwoofers should be banned from apartment buildings like smoking, pets or meth labs. i just don't get how someone could think having a subwoofer in an apartment building would not get them noise complaints.