OK guys thank you for all of your help! I pulled the trigger.
Here is what I decided on:
Source: Astell&Kern AK120II. It has all of the spcs I was looking for, got Great reviews and looks fabulous. I wanted something a little bight, as my home setup has all silver Kimber cables and has spectacular highs. I wanted this type of sound as well in a portable device and this seems to deliver this in spades.
IEM: Final Audio Design LAB 1. every unreal review cannot all be wrong, even ones from known audiophiles... I made an offer for them and cannot believe it was accepted for a new pair. This fits in to my original idea of making the ultimate travel set up. I have not had IEM's before but the over the ear devices had some drawbacks. They are big and bulky, and on long trips to Asia the headband was uncomfortable when laying my head against the pillow
Once they all arrive I will write up a review. Off to download my first 24/192 audio files...
Have a Great day!