s_nyc
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So, I read this other thread "How to convince my wife" and was surprised by some of the comments there.
It seems as though a lot of people living with a significant other feel that the money they earned is theirs and only theirs (save for the portion funding common expenses) and they have every right to spend it how they want. Quite a few of my friends couples do the same.
My wife and I on the other hand have always considered that my/her money was not a valid concept. We do end up making joint decisions on common expenses, savings, purchase of expensive stuff, etc. pretty much everything actually! I am sometimes wondering how a couple can work over the long run with one taking financial decisions without consulting the other. Yet, a lot of modern couples work that way.
So, out of curiosity, I'd like to make some statistics. How do you guys manage money in your couple?
It seems as though a lot of people living with a significant other feel that the money they earned is theirs and only theirs (save for the portion funding common expenses) and they have every right to spend it how they want. Quite a few of my friends couples do the same.
My wife and I on the other hand have always considered that my/her money was not a valid concept. We do end up making joint decisions on common expenses, savings, purchase of expensive stuff, etc. pretty much everything actually! I am sometimes wondering how a couple can work over the long run with one taking financial decisions without consulting the other. Yet, a lot of modern couples work that way.
So, out of curiosity, I'd like to make some statistics. How do you guys manage money in your couple?