Illah
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I read your whole post but skimmed the responses, however your situation is similar to my wife's. To be as brief as possible, same divorce drama and horrible family life. Really ****** situation. Getting out of it was the best thing she's ever done. Now she's successful, happy, and no longer needs to deal with the drama any more.
Some families are toxic. You can't choose your family, but you can choose how much contact you have with them (at least when you're older anyway).
Long story short, at your age you're kind of stuck. Just keep your head up. I hate to say it but you can't change your parents and they will never listen to you. My wife has had the same issues. Sometimes you just need to move on. When the time comes you'll be able to control your own life, but for now just make due.
Now my wife and I do very well for our age. Getting away from her family was the best thing she's ever done. There's more to it than what was written, however her family is very toxic. Now that she's on her own she has a college degree and has worked at several great companies and is one of the most successful of her generation of the family.
Even with me, moving out was a great thing to do. My family is actually OK, but being headstrong made me butt heads with my dad quite a bit. Now we respect each other a lot more since he realizes I'm not an idiot...I guess I proved myself to him
Just keep yourself together for another year or two and keep your eyes on college. Get out of the drama so you can focus on more important things. You're already a junior so you're almost there.
--Illah
Some families are toxic. You can't choose your family, but you can choose how much contact you have with them (at least when you're older anyway).
Long story short, at your age you're kind of stuck. Just keep your head up. I hate to say it but you can't change your parents and they will never listen to you. My wife has had the same issues. Sometimes you just need to move on. When the time comes you'll be able to control your own life, but for now just make due.
Now my wife and I do very well for our age. Getting away from her family was the best thing she's ever done. There's more to it than what was written, however her family is very toxic. Now that she's on her own she has a college degree and has worked at several great companies and is one of the most successful of her generation of the family.
Even with me, moving out was a great thing to do. My family is actually OK, but being headstrong made me butt heads with my dad quite a bit. Now we respect each other a lot more since he realizes I'm not an idiot...I guess I proved myself to him
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Just keep yourself together for another year or two and keep your eyes on college. Get out of the drama so you can focus on more important things. You're already a junior so you're almost there.
--Illah