@sonance,
There are many good subwoofer options available to consumers across all budgets. In addition to the companies you mentioned, Hsu Research, SVS and JL Audio all have sealed subwoofer offerings that would mate well with the Mini Maggie. If money is no object, I'd look to auditioning the JL Audio Fathom series F113 (I wouldn't need any larger for my small room.) But if you are looking for something at a lower price point look into the SVS SB13-Ultra.
rrahman has had good results with this highly rated subwoofer. HomeTheaterShack has comparisons of a number of subwoofers
here.
I agree somewhat with your assessment of the treble, as I too found the treble a bit aggressive. But as I noted in my
Mini Magnepan review, I was able to ameliorate the issue with the use of 1 ohm 10W resistors on the tweeter panels. On the other hand, I'm not sure I understand what you mean when you describe the treble as 'hi-fi' sounding. Perhaps you can elaborate with examples.
With the Mini's properly setup and positioned (mine are 14" from the wall and angled in at ~40 deg), I find the treble to be light, detailed and fast. Good recordings of cymbals are rendered with a lifelike quality that is typically only found in highend speakers. Perhaps a combination of placement and the use of resistors can address this issue in your system. The Maggies are reveling of amplifier differences as well. I do find paring the Mini with my Yamaha MX-1000 produces a much more relaxed, open and effortless listening experience at all volume levels.
The "true" sweet spot for me not slightly narrow, but is incredibly narrow. Any deviation in head position, an inch or so in any direction, can destroy an otherwise wide an deep sound stage image. This is readily apparent with many solo vocal recordings. But if you are in the sweet spot, the soundstage takes on an immersive three dimensional quality that I so enjoy. This is a quality that is unique to the speaker listening experience (unless headphones are used in conjunction with the Realiser). I may be wrong about the narrow sweet spot, but I believe this is a quality that is common among Magnepan ribbon tweeters because this was also true for the larger Magnepan I owned previously.
Lastly, at least for me, a quality subwoofer is mandatory accessory for the Magnepan Mini. The good sub will provide the balance that is lacking in an otherwise excellent speaker system. With the addition of a sub, I think you'll find that the overall characteristic of the system will be transformed into something quite special.