AudioDwebe
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I would really appreciate your opinion on this:
Is it ever okay for a five year old child to hit someone back who hit him first?
I just had a lengthy conversation with a Bahavioral Intervention Counselor at my son's grade school (pretty cool that they've got such a position). She pretty much said that the school has a zero tolerance for hitting or fighting of any sort, and that they teach the kids to use their "words" and "voices" to express their displeasure in being hit. And then they're supposed to tell the teacher that someone hit them.
"Don't hit me", walk away and tell the teacher.
Which sounds okay, but...
I've always instilled in my son that hitting first, for any reason, is totally wrong. I've also always told him that if he gets hit, it's okay to hit back.
This I've done for two reasons: One, I don't ever want my son to feel afraid to stand up for himself, and two, I felt that if someone were to hit him, the mere act of getting hit in return might persuade that person to stop the action (at least with where my son is concerned).
What is your opinion on this subject?
Thanks.
Mamoru
Is it ever okay for a five year old child to hit someone back who hit him first?
I just had a lengthy conversation with a Bahavioral Intervention Counselor at my son's grade school (pretty cool that they've got such a position). She pretty much said that the school has a zero tolerance for hitting or fighting of any sort, and that they teach the kids to use their "words" and "voices" to express their displeasure in being hit. And then they're supposed to tell the teacher that someone hit them.
"Don't hit me", walk away and tell the teacher.
Which sounds okay, but...
I've always instilled in my son that hitting first, for any reason, is totally wrong. I've also always told him that if he gets hit, it's okay to hit back.
This I've done for two reasons: One, I don't ever want my son to feel afraid to stand up for himself, and two, I felt that if someone were to hit him, the mere act of getting hit in return might persuade that person to stop the action (at least with where my son is concerned).
What is your opinion on this subject?
Thanks.
Mamoru