camille
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i have met someone about a month ago who is just unbelievable. she is from Japan to study for the next 9 months. i haven't felt like this about someone since a friend i know who lives in Korea. anyway, about 3 weeks ago, we had this great night with dinner, walking along downtown, bubble tea -- the works. we had such a wonderful time; we got along so well, i just wished that night never ended.
the day after, she tells me that she has a boyfriend (of 1 year) back in Japan; i was speechless, i had no speech. followed by apologies, she asks me if i was alright. although stricken, i told her i was fine. from that point we remain as friends. man, did i feel like hell the next day...
i confided to one of my cousins, and now a lot of my family members are telling me to get together w/ her (to "change her mind" so to speak). although I still have feelings for her, I seem to be the only one objecting to this. is this the right thing? i could be risking a friendship in the process, here. thanks.
the day after, she tells me that she has a boyfriend (of 1 year) back in Japan; i was speechless, i had no speech. followed by apologies, she asks me if i was alright. although stricken, i told her i was fine. from that point we remain as friends. man, did i feel like hell the next day...
i confided to one of my cousins, and now a lot of my family members are telling me to get together w/ her (to "change her mind" so to speak). although I still have feelings for her, I seem to be the only one objecting to this. is this the right thing? i could be risking a friendship in the process, here. thanks.