Rob, please chill for a moment,
I don't think the challenge is about whether you can design the ultimate headphone amp.
I speak from the viewpoint of someone whose day job is a mix of systems engineering and systems thinking.
This includes the 'System of Systems viewpoint'.
You can design the ultimate headamp, but you then rely on persuading
@Mojo ideas to incorporate your design into the future Chord amplifier or DAVE2 or whatever roadmap.
Both you and Chord are part of a 'Systems of Systems'.
You have your design system.
John has his assemble/market/sell system.
You are both dependent on the supply chain system, to provide components to test your design, and then supply enough components to manufacture/assemble/sell Chord products.
So no stakeholder works in their own silo.
The modern trend is for customers to request more visibility regarding future products/timelines/shipping etc.
At the moment you are providing as much visibility as you are allowed by Chord, regarding future product updates etc.
Chord traditionally are tight lipped, but there is a growing mismatch between what their customers expect, and what Chord are comfortable to divulge.
Only Chord can decide how they want to deal with the way forward.