This is simply not true, at least in theory. All impulses (specifically - electronically generated ones) have, in theory, an infinitely short transient, and therefore, an infinite series of ultrasonic partials. So pretty much any electronic music could, in theory, have such transients. Even a real-world (hard) cymbal strike might be expected to have a transient fast/sharp enough to require ultrasonics to reproduce fully. Now, is any of that really audible, or what, I don't know.
But I'm not really worried about what actually occurs in music or how often. The conclusion of almost every debate on this subject is "humans can't hear anything that 16/44.1 (or sometimes 24/48, whatever) can't reproduce", and the point I'm getting at is that there is some experimental evidence that this is not true.
For example, if you actually wanted to repeat this two-click threshold test done in the 70s (I found the link)
http://asa.scitation.org/doi/abs/10.1121/1.1912374 you would not be able to do so with digital equipment running at 44.1Khz. The shortest click you can represent at that sampling rate is... 22 us.
If there is some audible difference between clicks lasting 20 and 10 microseconds, then we must conclude that people CAN hear (under specific circumstances) more than 44.1 can reproduce. I won't argue that this really matters for music, but if we want a standard that theoretically exhausts human ability, we may want to consider that 16/44.1 isn't it.
Again, just to be clear, I am not arguing that there is anything really pertinent to real-world-music-listening at higher sampling rates, just that maybe it's technically possible to hear something that 44.1 can't do.
@pinnahertz: When I was talking about rolling off inaudible frequencies for safety, this is often done to the mix (sometimes in several places) to remove residual content that might throw off a compression or limiting stage. I'm sure I read it in a mixing handbook somewhere... anyway, I can vouch that it's a useful technique as long as you know that you're mixing for 44.1. It's a lot more important to do on the low end, but if you want to be a boy scout about your dynamics you might roll off over 20Khz too.
And, I am not suggesting that mics and other gear won't pass / reproduce ultrasonics ... just that they're not usually designed for it, and so there is no assurance of fidelity at all, once you pass 20Khz, usually.