First of all, no DIYer is going to send a spiffy DIY amp to you for free especially with a hostile attitude, just as no one expects you to send them your Grado RA-1 amp.
You can say that they haven't heard the RA-1 (some have), but they can say you haven't heard the right DIY amp.
There has also been "3rd party" tests where people like Dan obviously thinks his amp would blow the RA-1 away...course he'd probably sell his amp at much more than the cost of the RA-1 to boot given his value of it.
But if an experienced DIYer can look at the parts, identify them, and know how much they cost, they should be able to duplicate it for cheaper IMO, granted that they don't need a magic Grado wand it should perform just as well. We are assuming that mere mortal engineers are at Grado building these things anyhow. So if you do match the skill and parts, the only thing that would be missing would be I suppose the magic wand that makes it cost more.
And no one that I've heard has used the same opamp yet either.
I don't know what the big problem is...a lot of commercial headphone amp offerings are ummmm pricy.
IMO this argument could have just as easily extended into any commercial amp vs DIY. I remember the folks at Headroom claiming that they liked their amps much better than the Grado RA-1...for all we know they definitely had the resources and incentive to "spy a look" at the guts of the RA-1. Something like the TA just MIGHT easily have a higher or very similar price count than the RA-1...that surely also doesn't mean that people will like it as much.
As for why there are people judging the amp before they heard it. Well what if Dell has a nice expensive computer, and someone knowledgable about computers spied a look at the guts and was able to identify all the parts and layout. Perhaps they could argue that they could make the same thing for cheaper...or maybe something even better. Wheter or not this is the reality I do not know...I do know that this is the stance of many DIYer's.
Ummmm, I probably can't build an RA-1 so I can't say. But I definitely know I could easily build a good computer for cheap. Course that said, I have no problems buying prebuilt computers from good companies and sometimes prefer it!