The Mini3 has a few very nice things about it - it's a 3-channel design using extremely high speed opamps with a fairly nice power supply and it's all off a 9V battery in a Hammond 1455C80x case, which is pretty tiny.
ESP Project 109 has a few serious drawbacks. One, it uses an input cap (bad unless you need it). The crossfeed is easy to implement, take your pick of the Corda Cross circuit or CMOY's Linkwitz crossfeed, both are there for you to DIY on a very simple board if you want it, and Tangent offers CMOY's crossfeed PCBs.
The Mini3, although unbuffered and simple looking, offers nice sound because of its nice implementation of the AD8397 and OPA690 opamp which in general don't need a buffer (AD8397 has an output current of 300mA+, who wants to buffer that).