While it can easily be argued that musicians play/record/position themselves to project the best sound to the position of the audience/ microphones, I still personally prefer the virtual position of being amongst the musicians to the third row seat or wherever recording engineers think we wish we were. Personal experience informs me that I like the sound the musicians hear a lot better. If this seems out of left field, picture this: what is better, the musicians, vocalists, amps, and all facing you or a PA and monitors feeding the sound to you. In other words, do you want the recording to give you the concert experience you remember, or an even better and more immediate/intimate experience? (Not a great analogy, but I have found being among the musicians is a nicer sound than being in the audience.)
The point being that headphones tend to place you there effortlessly but speakers stink at it; and headphones that use spatial engineering - driver placement, etc - to enlarge the soundstage/headstage will never be able to do it well.
The modern recording practice of isolating each musician and close miking most of them, especially the vocalists, yields an altered pattern as compared to musicians on a stage facing an audience. I expect it would be a struggle to flatten the mix back to an audience perspective. What naturally comes out would be a position amongst the musicians.
Given my preference, these modern techniques and the OII are just what my audio doctor ordered.
Obviously, this applies even more to acoustic music than guitar/bass/keyboard amps, but applies to all.
Clark