As a record producer (of jazz and world music) and a listener who also particularly enjoys classical music I'm very interested in how people hear. These graphs seem to show a +/- 2-3dB standard deviation in perceived loudness in the critical presence range of 2-6K. That would certainly make an obvious difference in how we hear, but I don't think it can account for how we differently judge transducers or other playback equipment in terms of frequency response/tonal balance. Since we're all locked into our own hearing, whatever it is, when we say something sounds bright or dark to us we're comparing it with other situations and experiences - concert hall acoustics, house sound amplification, home playback chains - that we're familiar with. There is no external standard, only differences between different experiences of music. If I hear a certain hp as dark in the 2-6K range it's in relation to other phones, speakers, or live music. Someone else should hear that hp as (relatively) dark too, no matter that one of us may be hearing everything in that range as significantly louder or quieter in relation to mids or lows than the other person.
I think disagreements about tonal balance have more to do with the fact that each of us has our own concept of what sounds natural and right in the musics we enjoy. For example when I go to the symphony I like to sit in the first or second row - I love the blast of mostly direct sound and being able to hear a long way into complex music. If I sit in the 6th or 10th row, unamplified music already sounds way too dull and generalized to me. On the other hand when I go to jazz concerts that are amplified I'm very sensitive to over-bright EQ, it ruins the beauty of instruments for me. So there's a range of situations that I enjoy, and outside that range my enjoyment is diminished. Someone else, perhaps because their hearing is more sensitive in the presence range and/or because they like a more blended sound, prefers the dress circle at the symphony; another person who enjoys rock or dance music with pumped-up frequency extremes might like jazz EQd that way too. Whatever, the point is that a hp like the Audeze is going to sound darkish to some people (like me) and not to others because of their listening preferences, which are a matter of taste as much as or more than hearing.