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I found this to be an interesting read. Yes, it's mostly misogynistic, but the first few paragraphs about the way women are attracted to men seem like pretty valid observations.
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My god, how old are you
All the "qualities" in a man that were named in that article where women would fall for disgust me in a man. But hey, that could be just me..
Have you ever asked a woman for what reason she fell in love with, for example, you? I doubt you would get the answers as described in your interesting read.
For me, personally, I like the eyes. They can tell you a lot about a person. Also the way they interact with their enviroment, whether they are respectful, friendly, modest or not. The way they talk, if they have humour, that sort of things.
And I think, unconciously, scent is one of the most important factors here.
The one you fall for always smells delicious and according to science it has been proven it's because of a specific chemical content it has which appeals to you and attracts you.
It did also show that in that scent lies information about the immune system. They ran a test with women who had to smell the shirt of men (they didn't know or saw before) who just played basketball, and had to pick out the most sexy man just by the smell of the shirt. They all chose a man with a good immune system BUT different than theirs because when making babies their gene mixture would be of more benefit to the baby than it would have had with the same kind of immune system.
So sure, looks are what you build your first judgement of a person on if there hasn't been anything else, but to truly fall in love with someone and feel that's the one for all time is based upon more than looks. Scent, aka chemical mixture definitily has a bigger role here as well as the character of a person.
Of course there are people who just want to be with someone because of their money, power, status and looks and of course there are (wo)men who can't think for themselves but I think that's a whole different chapter, like the one about mental disability and media promoting that kind of aditude since it's all you see on the "precious" telly nowadays.