Forget about what science is and isn't for a moment. Just try to understand what I'm saying from a practical standpoint. I'll try not to use the words "Subjective" or "Objective" again. I think that is what is derailing you.
Follow my line of reasoning here... There's nothing we can do about the shapes of our ears. We are born with it, and we live our lives with it, and we get used to it. It's the only thing we know. With home audio equipment, you can adjust or match each component to improve fidelity. With ears, you hear what you hear and that is all that you hear. (Says Popeye the Sailor Man.) Now on the other hand, our unique physiognomy is irrelevant to the fidelity of sound produced by our home audio equipment. I can be stone deaf and put on a set of headphones and hear absolutely nothing, but that doesn't mean the headphones aren't producing high fidelity sound. I'm just not perceiving it myself. And my personal experience of deafness doesn't mean that when you put those same headphones on, you will perceive the same thing I did. All of us live our lives as subjective solipsists. We can pretend that we are objective, and we can speak with great certainty about what we believe objective reality is; but ultimately, the only thing we experience ourselves is 100% solipsist perception. Now that I've proven that reality is an illusion, I have to say that I don't see how that has anything at all to do with how we choose home audio components... which ultimately is what we are talking about here. Hopefully this makes sense.
The future of better sounding home audio probably lies in using signal processing to synthesize and sculpt aural environments. That might involve applying information about the shapes of our ears, or maybe it won't. It may not even progress to that stage. Since everyone's ears are different, it requires some pretty precise customization, which might end up being more trouble to consumers than it's worth to them. Multichannel sound vs. mp3s and streaming have clearly shown that given the choice between better sound and convenience, consumers will choose convenience every time. In fact, it doesn't even have to really sound better- you can just *tell them it sounds better* and quite a few suckers will buy into it (SACD, blu-ray audio, etc.) People may just want "good enough" sound with more convenience. I dunno. My Magic 8 Ball says, "Ask Again Later".
I noticed at Amazon the other day that they have an Echo now that listens to the acoustics of the room and processes its own output to create dimensional sound. That may be the way things go. The biggest limitation to multichannel speaker installations is convincing the wife to allow intrusive speakers at specific points all over the room and running wires to all of them. If Amazon can come up with a little wireless tabletop speaker that you can use in pairs, or whatever multichannel configuration you want... and you can put them in any spot in the room that is convenient... and they will automatically compensate for the placement and the room... they may be onto something. Maybe in the future, we will have dozens of little speakers all over our house playing object based sound with built in room correction and ambience manipulation. With a setup like that, all speakers would be equal, and the number of speakers would determine better sounding systems from poorer ones.