I think you should be applauded for telling it like it is, even if it isn't necessary "politically correct". I hope this post doesn't get lost in the shuffle because I think you touch on several short comings in modern audio communities driven by the internet.
I have been following audio communities online since their inception, and I'm not sure what it is about the appreciation of high fidelity audio reproduction, but it seems to be strongly correlated with developing communities that turn into cult of the personality style situations.
You can see the pattern repeat itself with almost any community outside head fi. There are one or two "authoritative voices" that almost everybody follows, and are generally treated in such communities as the "benevolent dictator". The response to having these voices threatened or challenged in any way is very similar to the response of those who have been brain washed in a cult. Reason, logic, and rational empathetic understanding have no place. Ironic considering the superficial "scientific" nature of some of these communities, where one would otherwise think logic and reason would abound.
I am not saying head fi is perfect. But among places to actually discuss audio products online, it stands out a a place which has a disparate number of opinions, such that people can respectfully disagree with each other. Again, head fi isn't perfect by any stretch of the imagination, but there is no "cult of the personality" effect here. People can, do, and frequently are rather vocal about their disagreement with people like Jude all the time.
I think it comes down to people generally not being comfortable with the subjective nature of evaluating audio products. These people are crying out for a "leader", for an authoritative voice to tell them what is true and what is false. They don't have the will power or the resolve to make these decisions for themselves, so they buy in to one of the community leaders which can appeal both to their rational side and give them the warm fuzzes about being "right" and having the "real truth".
The reality is, buying headphones requires one to be comfortable with making decisions for themselves based on their own experience. It isn't like wanting the fastest car and choosing the one with the fastest 0-60 time, which is how consumers are generally trained to buy products, especially electronics. They want a spec sheet. They want a stack ranked list. They want the best. But buying headphones is more like choosing to vacation in Hawaii or New York City. Both vacation destinations appeal to different people who experience things differently.
There may come a time when the research and understanding of audio physiology is at a point where it will be possible to choose a headphone given some objective specifications. But we aren't anywhere near that point yet. And the best thing we all can do is recognize that, understand we all prefer different things, and be respectful to each other.
Can't be said enough, but this is all about the music. Just listened to the Z1R's with Mighty Mo Rodgers' "The Boy Who Stole The Blues". From all my foot tapping I am at my exercise goal for the day. I suppose I am part of some grand audio conspiracy according to some people. Thankfully, that doesn't detract from the music on my end.