Mr. Two posts is going to chime in here and try to say something knowledgeable and relevant. Don't worry about my post count. If it makes sense, go with it.
First, I'm skeptical of the validity of this whole situation... but then, I haven't read other posts by Patrick82. Everything I say below is with the assumption that he is being genuine with us.
Almost everyone responding here is missing the point, or dodging around it. You're giving him pointers about music as if you were giving them to someone who already has the requisite emotional response Patrick is looking to stimulate.
The problem is not the music. It sounds like music is just one of many aspects of his life where he does not experience what we, the general population, do experience.
I gather that Patrick experiences music and sound indisinguishably; that is, to him it's all just audible frequencies. Some of it is called music. He's focusing on it for a range of reasons, but what those reasons are is irrelevant to this argument. Likewise, he experiences hair-standing-on-end as a physiological action in itself, not as a byproduct of an emotional state like the rest of us do. He's asking how to make his hair stand on end with music. What he should be asking is how to have an emotional response. He's just getting caught up in the details of how we all manage to do it.
Unfortunately, no amount of description can teach a brain how to feel emotions. It is a process that can be guided, however, with the right kind of counseling and likely a bit of medication, as he seems to be symptomatic of several of the conditions mentioned earlier in this thread. Lots of those symptoms can be a simple matter of brain chemistry. Treatable.
Patrick, you seem to have quite the analytical mind. You seem to have a fine grasp of detail. If any of what I said above seems to be valid as applied to you, perhaps you should serisouly consider a visit to a doctor. They can determine what, if any, course of action may benefit you. I hope this can be something you want for yourself; you're missing out on a lot and there's a good chance that you don't have to.