worst date stories
Sep 23, 2013 at 7:19 AM Post #587 of 1,450
Well there was one girl I dated that cut herself...I didn't find out until I paid close attention to her wrist while holding her hand because I felt scars there. Being the retard I am, I didn't break up with her until a couple months later when everyone close to me said I had become depressed, sad and brooding ever since dating her. Needless to say I finally broke up with her. Not a horrible date, more a dating horror story.
 
Sep 23, 2013 at 9:14 PM Post #588 of 1,450
Well there was one girl I dated that cut herself...I didn't find out until I paid close attention to her wrist while holding her hand because I felt scars there. Being the retard I am, I didn't break up with her until a couple months later when everyone close to me said I had become depressed, sad and brooding ever since dating her. Needless to say I finally broke up with her. Not a horrible date, more a dating horror story.

 
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Sep 24, 2013 at 2:44 AM Post #589 of 1,450
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Sep 24, 2013 at 11:02 AM Post #592 of 1,450
The majority of girls I've been with cut themselves.

 
Geeze, is it that prevalent of a self destructive misbehavior ?
 
So sorry to hear . 
 
Sep 24, 2013 at 11:50 AM Post #593 of 1,450
Sep 24, 2013 at 12:19 PM Post #595 of 1,450
Sep 24, 2013 at 12:28 PM Post #596 of 1,450
   
Geeze, is it that prevalent of a self destructive misbehavior ?
 
So sorry to hear . 

 
It's actually somewhat "contagious". It can sometimes form a sort of bonding in a small group. Like anything, it's a way to fit in, a form of expression, etc. For some, the physical pain is easier to tolerate than emotional, or it numbs it. Others just do it because are are doing it. Not too different from alcohol or drugs in a way. Still not healthy behaviour, but it is what it is.
 
Sep 25, 2013 at 5:20 AM Post #599 of 1,450
I used to cut myself, i was at a pretty bad point in my life, adapting to living in a different country. I felt i was useless and alone.
Went through that for about 3 years, gradually getting worse.
Then one day, out of the blue i woke up and realised that life is to be lived and decided to be more positive towards things.
I have some pretty nasty scars, but now i am a very happy positive person :)
 

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